Showing posts with label contracts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label contracts. Show all posts

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Why do we put up with it?

A recent blogger ranted about her relationship with cable and satellite television service providers. In essence she accepted their terms, purchased a more expensive package of stations so that she could watch one in particular.

Only a short time into her contract the provider informed her in a form letter that the station she wanted no longer was offered because it was too demanding.

So now she's paying a higher rate for a bunch of stations she really doesn't want and cannot have access to the one station that drove her to make the larger investment. Can she write to company and say, "Without that station, I no longer want this contract?"

Probably not. After all, she has signed a contract. Funny how the consumer has no rights to change a contract, but a company/business can do whatever it pleases?

Her dilemma brought up one that my husband and I battle. I admit that we are passive aggressive. We get all angry and then do nothing. It is a reaction that companies bank on. Change is not easy, fighting for change even more difficult, and most people will just allow themselves to be victimized. That's us.

We have been customers of the same telephone service for most of our married lives. You would think that as 'valued customers' who pay on time and through the nose without protest, the company might offer us their best cost savings plans.

I can hear you laughing.

Unless we figure out what we are being billed for -- fat chance of that ever happening. These phone bills are better encrypted than the secret missives at the pentagon. Unless we decipher the bill, know what the best offers are that are made to OTHER customers but not to us. Unless we know what to ask for, how to demand better service, etc. etc. etc. We'll continue to pay more than our fair share.

All I want is a phone I can use to call my family now and then. A cell phone is perfect. But what about my Internet service provider? What if I just got a blackberry? Would that take care of my needs? Who do I ask? How do I find out?

I bet if we stop being a customer. End our service. Do without -- we might get someone's attention. But, getting attention is far from being the same as getting the truth. And in this age of spin and misdirection does anyone really know the truth about anything?
I really wish there was a Consumer's Union that I could join where I could get fair representation; a representative who speaks my language and can explain my rights and the best possible purchase to me, AND without sending me an undecipherable bill with hidden charges.
Let's start a Consumer's Union! Workers Unite!!!

We received a survey in the mail to fill out for consumer products. The standard invasive questions, but on the last page they made a last ditch attempt to get our information by providing glowing endorsements from people who have either received their tantalizing monetary prizes or appreciated the promised coupons. Almost to a person the respondents said something about not expecting to get what was promised, not trusting that they were truthful or would keep their word, or some allusion to 'others' who rip off, swindle, lie, cheat...."

Obviously there is a large population that feels paranoid whenever called upon for information or to sign a contract. Is this the American way? Double talk? Take with one hand and slap us with the other? Lie, cheat, steal, and encourage others to do the same?

Is this the only way to enter into a contract for services in the United States?

What is my recourse? Consumers Unite!

More likely we will simply do without.

You know -- I really like that idea. I can do without just about anything except Internet service. Anyone care to tell me how I can have Internet service without paying a nasty evil telephone bill or cable bill? I do so hate supporting these bad business practices.
Point me to the Consumers' Union Hall.

Sunday, December 9, 2007

Book Review: The Pirate's Daughter

Due to a contract that I couldn't bring myself to sign and a market that would not alter the contract wording to a kinder-gentler, less in your face, buy-all attitude, this review never saw the light of day.

Today I saw several reviews of Pirate's Daughter at Amazon and other online venues and think that this offers a bit more detail and information than those, so I'm posting it here. It wasn't the best book I've ever read, but it has stayed with me, so maybe that makes it better than I first thought.

I'm a sucker for titles that have the word 'daughter' in the title. And there seem to be a lot of them. I also stop to peruse books with 'wife' in the title and have several to be read. Too often the title is the best part of the book.

Another aspect that draws me to this book is Errol Flynn -- my husband is named after this swashbuckler -- but turned out to be a much better man than Errol Flynn, based upon Flynn's biographical information and my 35 years of marriage -- I could be a bit biased on this point.

FICTION
The Pirate’s Daughter
Margaret Cezair-Thompson
Unbridled Books, Denver, CO
392 Pages
Hardcover, $24.95
ISBN: 978-1-952961409

Two generations of women lose their innocence, face violence, rejection, and betrayals, while finding love and friendship in this coming-of-age story that reflects Jamaica’s own bid for independence. The family lineage follows Jamaica’s history from the Maroons, escaped slaves who set up communities in the mountains; to an influx of expatriates, British rule, and wealthy celebrities seeking a playground; to a discovery of balance and harmony and new birth.

The prologue, best understood after reading the book, introduces readers to May, a 26-year old young woman whose name reflects her questions – when May I, where May I, with whom May I find a place where I belong? Her I-centric mother, beautiful Ida, serves as the lynch pin on which this novel revolves. Men enter and leave the mother and daughter’s lives. Each character is allowed to be human, with flaws, strengths and mistakes to correct.

Ida, a child blossoming into womanhood and adored by her Syrian father and Maroon/Chinese mother, falls for the charming and aging Errol Flynn. The American swashbuckling movie star in real life did run aground during a storm in 1946, fall in love with Jamaica and build a home on a nearby island – a kind of Jamaican Tara. There the facts end, and fiction proceeds.

Ida gives birth to their daughter, May. Flynn flees and Ida heads to America to find work and a way to support her child. She leaves May behind to dream of pirates, hidden treasure and her movie star father. While at the mercy of caretakers who by turns ignore and abuse her, May endures the taunts of Jamaican peers “White witch! You white like duppy [ghost]!” Only her childhood friend and playmate, Derek, stands by and protects her, showing up when needed most.

Lies, drugs, and a violent tug-of-war for control of Jamaica’s government destroy the paradise. Each generation of women gains strength as the country also finds the power to rebuild. Ida and May share many of the same attributes as Scarlett O’Hara of the classic “Gone With The Wind” as they fight for home and family and men they love, but shouldn’t.

Cezair-Thompson, who teaches literature and creative writing at Wellesley College, weaves pirates and hidden treasure throughout the novel, adding another exotic element to an already rich setting. This, the author’s second novel, is told in a quiet, simple style, and sprinkled with Jamaican speech, beliefs, and details that the author learned during her childhood in Jamaica. It follows her first novel “The True History of Paradise,” a finalist for the Dublin International IMPAC Award.

The intertwining of Jamaica history and the characters’ lives elevates this novel from simply entertaining to truly memorable.###

(October 2006) Dawn Goldsmith